You may have noticed that I haven’t been blogging much lately – life and work are getting in the way. Some of my favourite blogs have shut down recently, and I have contemplated doing the same… I’ve decided not to. I don’t know how much writing I’ll get to do, and how much I can share with you (am trying to work on some longer short stories and fiction), but I’ll still be around whenever I can 🙂
This is something I wrote this morning. A little haiku for the lovers…
I was lost in love
Heart’s compass re-calibrates
Now points me to you
Picture courtesy of : flickr.com/photos/chatterstone/21387614233
Glad to see you are still around 🙂
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Thanks Lucy – am just about hanging in here! 🙂
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Nice haiku! I too vanish from the scene, only to keep coming back.
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Thanks Alka. I may adopt the same approach! 🙂
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Reblogged this on O LADO ESCURO DA LUA.
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I find it a pity when people just shut down their blog. I mean you can always stop blogging but leave it open so others can still enjoy reading what you wrote.
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Thanks Geetha – I agree on that. I don’t think I’d ever take the site down wholesale, even if I do stop adding new content for a while 🙂
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Good to know. There are so many good writers on wordpress I don’t have the time to read all their work but occasionally visit their archives
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I’ve just felt too swamped to even try and keep up recently… as you say, so many good (and great) writers out there!
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I totally understand your predicament. When I started my new job, I never realised I would have so little time to keep up with what I love the most which is writing and reading. I sometimes think that I should retire to a lighthouse somewhere and just write and read eating only what I grow myself in small gardens 😀
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The blogger/writer’s dream! 🙂
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Yes 🙂
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That is kind of what I am doing right now, Geetha (writing while house and pet sitting in remote locations and for the first time ever growing our own little vegetable garden in which the veggies will be abundant right in time for the owners to come back home :-)), but, unfortunately, we still need money for groceries and clothes. 🙂
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That sounds fantastic but if you are in a remote location, do you really need clothes? Unless it is cold of course, where you are. More seriously, I think with a few odd jobs here and there, it should be possible the writer’s dream. Much inspiration to you 🙂
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Thanks. You know, it is a regrettable fact that we do need more clothes living on land than on the water. But, being our frugal selves, we keep new and second-hand purchases to a minimum. 🙂 I think this house sitting lifestyle is perfect for the (flexible) writer!
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Too much of a good thing makes us take you for granted. Finding your right output pace is important & I’d be happy to see longer pieces at less frequent intervals with haiku and other (zombie-related?) verse sprinkled in between 🙂
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That’s the balance I’m aiming for, I guess. I haven’t written about zombies in a while… perhaps that’s why things have slowed down!
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Ah, that’ll be burn-out from the A-Z challenge! 😉
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There’s some truth in that!
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I’ve had zombie visions lately and thought of you 😉
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Good to hear from you Al! A lovely haiku. I sure hope you don’t leave!
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Thanks Meg. I have missed staying in touch with everyone. Funny how you build up these blog friendships, and come to rely on that interaction more than people in the “real” world!
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I know exactly what you mean! Like you ‘have’ to check in and visit everyone! For some, I think, this might be all there is…
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If I had the money and the time, I could fall into it just like them!
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I hear you. 🙂
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❤
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Nice one, Al. Hang in there, I’d miss your writing.
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Aw, thanks Ryan 🙂
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Perfect.
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Thanks Fionn 🙂
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Yes, please don’t leave entirely. Just blog whenever you have time. I would definitely miss you! xo
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Thank you! I hadn’t meant this as a cry for attention post, so am a little overwhelmed to have had this reaction! 🙂
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It’s just that we love you, silly man ❤
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I’m getting that 😀 ❤
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Lovely poem! And you can’t leave! Just slow down and post when you can. I would miss you and so would so many others! ❤️
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Thanks Vic… today’s made me realise that! Feeling the love ❤
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Good! You’re well loved here. 😊
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❤ (thank you)
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Oh, please don’t shut down, Al. I would miss your blog. There aren’t any rules about how often or how much to post, you know. I will look forward to whatever bubbles to the surface.
Beautiful haiku.
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Thanks Diana. I guess the transition from “full-on blogger” to “occasional blogger” is just a mental adjustment for me. I’m not quite done with all of this yet 🙂
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I’m constantly having to adjust and will be adjusting again as I start writing new material, which for me takes big chunks of time. It’s a never-ending balancing act. But we are all in the same boat, so we have to understand and hopefully honor each other’s choices. I’m excited that you are still writing and working on some longer pieces of fiction. I’ll be paying attention 🙂
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🙂 One of the problems for my writing style is it is completely conditioned for short formats – so every word is agonised over, plots (such as they are) are mono-themed, characters only sketched out… it’s like making the transition from sprints to marathons!
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😀 A good analogy. I have no brilliant recommendations except not to overthink it. The first draft is usually ugly and it’s supposed to be. Your characters will step to the plate and help you (believe it or not) and the detailed polish that you’re used will follow along later. Above all, just have fun.
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That’s the sort of advice I can get on board with! Thank you so much ❤
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Al, you cannot be serious!!! If you disappear for longer than a few weeks I shall gather a hunting party of fellow bloggers to come and find you. Lovely haiku by the way!
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Thank you! Good job I’m not going on holiday this summer 🙂
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Count me in!
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Noted. We’ll meet at dawn Dawn!
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At Dawn? That’s way too early for me!
*Grunting and moaning (no, not *that* kind of moan!)* Ok, I’ll make an exception for Al 😉
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Al, I’m glad you are still here. I’d miss you terribly but I wish you success in going after the dream that burns inside. Your friend, Rita
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Thanks Rita… many dreams burning here – need to pick one or two and go with those! 🙂
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Yes sir! I missed ya
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And I’ve missed your take-no-shit approach to life too! 🙂
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I’m still there – just on the private one.
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I know – just struggling to keep up with following blogs, as well as posting 🙂
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You stay focused on getting that best seller out of that brain of yours and I’ll keep poking you with a stick
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Haha! Deal 🙂
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I finally got the reach out that was ONE TOO far on the public site. It’s happened EVERY time I tried to just blog publicly and that one broke the camel’s back. So I’m hanging with friends only now. YOU are counted among them.
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Hanging out with friends is the best way of thinking of it anyway. I never even check my site stats any more – it doesn’t mean anything. Glad to be among them 🙂
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I’m glad you are!
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After months of putting most of our efforts into our blogs, we all seem to realize after a while that it is extremely time-consuming and that other – usually more important – tasks or occupations don’t get the attention they deserve. I’m glad you are still around, Al, and I respect and appreciate that you post when it suits you best. This blogging can be quite draining and the expectations quite high… I don’t know how some people manage to put all their time and energy in daily or almost daily blogs (plus social media), except when they bring in revenue.
Liesbet @ Roaming About
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Thanks Liesbet – that last bit is the killer. Creating and sharing new content is what I enjoy most, but there’s a financial reality to life too, that impacts on your time and energy beyond the working day. I just need to find the best balance for me 🙂
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I shall honor whatever path you follow and believe that our will cross at whatever point they are meant to. That being said.. May your compass always point to YOUR true north. ❤
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Ooh, wise advice there, my friend. I feel like I have three or four “norths” to choose from! 🙂
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And so you do… which means there will be many opportunities to connect! Carry on.
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Indeed I will! 😀
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Love this.
Regarding the blog. Try cutting down first to see if that helps. I have lost two dozen of my favorite blogs recently. Bloggers who have become good friends. It is a little disheartening, but if you have a need to express your creativity, there is no better platform.
Best of luck in your decision. I will truly miss your little short writes that I have come to appreciate. Be well.
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Thank you, my friend. I think cutting down is the right approach – as you say, there is a need for me to express my creativity somewhere. (In my last job, I left little post-it notes of poetry on the vending machine from time to time… am not sure anyone ever read them before the notes lost their stickiness, but it seems to make even less sense than blogging!)
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Oh, how I wish I had worked with you! I would have LOVED those post-it notes! for real!
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I don’t think most of my office were the poetic types (and my new office certainly aren’t)… I suppose you never know who’s going to read them though. I may have to try again at my new place 🙂
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Well, I would have read them and I would have told you I’d read them – it might have annoyed you so much that you would have stopped writing them altogether haha
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Haha! They were all anonymous, and I was careful not to let people see me post them. It just gave me a kick, I guess 🙂
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There seems to be an epidemic of people “leaving”at the moment, it always makes me sad because, unless you absolutely have to, there’s no need, is there? Just post whenever you get the chance, we never signed a contract stating we had to post every day when we decided to create a blog 😉
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I think if you asked ten different leavers, you’d get ten different answers. I know some, for example, who have finished a particular chapter in their lives and want to move onto the next thing. There’s a continuous cycle of creation in the blogiverse, and I guess for that to sustain there also needs to be a certain amount of destruction, however much we wish otherwise 🙂
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I can totally understand moving on to the next thing but why the need to delete blogs like I’ve seen so many people do? It can stay out there, even if you’re done with it, if only as a testament to your past…that’s just my humble opinion though 😊
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I had the same conversation with one blogger who shut down their site, starting with your point. I think the danger of “confessional” blogging is that if your feelings move on, then you really don’t want that testament staying out there forever, electronically, especially when people in their offline life can access that. The only reason I’d ever delete this blog would be if I’d got a deal to publish a whole bunch of poems from here, and that was the quickest way to remove them from public view. (Basically, I’d do it for a combination of greed and laziness 🙂 ) Like I said, if you asked ten different leavers/deleters, I bet you’d get ten different reasons. 🙂
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This is lovely. And I hope you don’t disappear completely! That would be very sad. 😦 No need to do that… just blog when you can, even if it’s rare. I’ve never really understood why anyone would shut down completely. (But if that turns out to be best for you, you should, of course, do that…) But I hope you leave it and come back whenever. I’d certainly miss you and your posts and your sense of humor. There are no blogging rules… you don’t have to post much… or even visit much! ♥
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I really wasn’t looking for any sort of validation today, but boy have I received it in spades! I think I just need to tell myself that it’s okay to step off the blogging treadmill, and dip back in when it suits me, rather than playing the impossible game of trying to keep up with all but a handful of blogs. You’re right that there are no rules, but I think I’d built up a whole list of them in my own head nonetheless!
I have a couple of other haiku from today to share, and bizarrely a poem about the approach of new year (I wrote it last year, a little too late to post it) , so there will be at least three further posts from me this year GUARANTEED!!! How many more, who can say?
Thanks for your kindness and your friendship, Sandra ❤
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Oh, I think I make up rules in my head, too. I make up many many things. 🙂 I put too much pressure on myself… I think we have a tendency to do that. I feel guilty when I can’t read/keep up with so many of the blogs I follow. But doing so would be impossible! WOO HOO! At least 3 more guaranteed!! You’re funny. See? You can’t vanish forever… you make me laugh! 😀 And no thanks needed… it’s my pleasure. ♥
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I said three more this year, minimum … Could be hundreds next year. Who knows? I certainly don’t! Planning is for those with more discipline than this flighty poet 🙂
Ooh look, there’s a shiny over there…
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Haha! 😃 Discipline… I don’t have much of that either. It’s a weakness… Or a strength. Not quite sure which…
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Own it. Claim it as a strength 🙂
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Fits right in with my crazy party lifestyle. 😀
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I bet it’s all sex and drugs and rock n roll, right?
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Yes, of course! It is me after all. Though I do tend toward door #1 of those 3. Ahem. 😉
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There are a few of us 😉
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There are a few of us;)
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Wonderful haiku Al.
I will really miss you if you stop blogging. I have cut down a bit myself lately, but could imagine giving it up altogether.
I will look forward to seeing your posts as and when you write them! 🙂
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Thanks Judy. We’ve followed fairly similar paths through the blogiverse (except you got yourself organised and actually published a book – well done on that one!)… maybe we both over-committed, and need to find a more comfortable level for each of us now. I also look forward to seeing your posts as and when you write them 🙂 ❤
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You need to get that book published Al! There are loads of us here who are looking forward to reading it! 🙂
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I guess I’d better get on with it then! ❤
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You better had! I am very good at nagging ahem I mean, reminding! 🙂
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Haha! Guess I’m getting “reminders” both offline and online now! 😀
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Good! 🙂
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Oh, I really like that! >
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Thanks Misky!
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Thanks for the lovely haiku Al, I was indeed getting worried, maybe you were secretly watching the British team sweeping the medals at Rio. I don’t know what they were motivated by But I would love some. I have distant memories of the Aussies always leading everyone else at the Commonwealth games and even the Brits at the Olympics but not any more. Was Boris Johnson the team psychologist?
ps don’t abandon blogging….
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Haha! I have been watching lots of the Olympics… Stayed up to see Mo Farah do the “double double” last night! Not a bad medal tally in the end 😉
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Very nice haiku! I have been busy too with new job and a new website. Trying to be around for as long as I can.
Glad to hear that will be around too as much as you can! Good luck with the short stories 🙂
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Thank you! Good luck with the new site too! 🙂
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Thank you! 🙂
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I missed you, Al. Glad to see you are still here. I too wonder if Blogging regularly inhibits the creativity. It’s not a worry yet, but it may well become one. Keep in touch.
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Thanks Roger. Trying to 🙂
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You’ve got my e-mail. Even if you stop blogging, please keep in touch.
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Hi Al. I still remember what you said to me when I was in the process of moving and posted that I wouldn’t be around for awhile. You said, “Life comes first.” Follow your heart and you will find the way. Take care my friend! ❤
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Thanks Olga. That’s always good advice! 🙂
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Beautiful haiku! Wonderful imagery.
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Thanks Emily ❤
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A haiku a day keeps the doctor away … just like crunchy apples …
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They do if you throw them hard enough!
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And keep them very sharp and pointed … don’t give up … the world needs you …
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I’ll keep sharpening those haiku and throwing them around for a while yet! 🙂
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yeah, stay around!
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Thank you, Sharmishtha… I intend to 🙂
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